RIGHT TO EQUAL BEDROOM PLEASURE .
Equal bedroom pleasure is the practice of couples taking time to understand/communicate, value each other’s sexual desires and intentionally working to balance your sexual pleasure with that of your spouse.
Simply put, it’s about lovers working to create an equally satisfying sex life.
It’s quite important for women to claim their right to equal pleasure, improve sex life and stop making it all about their husbands; letting him pump and climax, while her pleasure is ignored.
Getting an orgasm actually takes two ruffling and tangling the sheets. Be involved with all your heart, this is very vital.
Sex is both a physical and emotional need; so make sure you are involved with all your heart and do not treat like a routine to-do activity instead, you should be fully interested and invested in the act. As your first and foremost need must be to take care of your sexual desires equally as that of your spouse as spouses owe the right to equal sexual pleasure.
Most women often ignore their own sexual needs, happiness and pleasure for that of their men and this is one major reason ladies usually fake orgasms.
Why choose to fake it when you can actually have an orgasm?
Never allow your need for pleasure to play a second fiddle; sexual pleasure is your right too.
Choosing to cater for your spouse’s sexual needs to the detriment of your own needs (no pun intended) somewhere along the line, she may begin to leave her sexual satisfaction behind.
It is fundamental you take good care of you and your guy’s needs. Stop self sabotaging in the bedroom. ‘’No gree’’ for the year 2024.
Below are a few ways to achieve equal bedroom pleasures:
Indulge in light-hearted pranks during intercourse it will help make the two of you more comfortable this allows for closer bonding.
Always bear in mind that you’re a participant, not a lifeless robot, research says, “men generally like to have relationships with women who enjoy sex equally.”
Being active means you have to put your efforts into achieving orgasm and responding to your partner’s action coupled with your own action shows your interest in sex. You are never a sex toy hence, your reactions and suggestions matter if trying to improve your sex life.
Be free to talk sex even if centuries of history have made ladies to accommodate others, to be pleasant and polite, not to ask for more. Making women feel they have no right to ask for the type of attention and touch that would bring them pleasure.
As a lady, you and your spouse should be able to express your desires to one another: let him know exactly how you want his touch, where to touch and how to touch if possible.
All these interactions including dirty talks and sexual pillow talk, will help make both of you comfortable about sex and in the long run, helps to facilitate your orgasm trip, hence communication is key.
Try to be on the same level especially as a handful of lovers enjoy having it fast while others prefer slow sex. It’s nothing to worry about since you can always talk to your lovebird before any such movement.
Knowing what you desire, want, like, dislike and being able to ask for it, is the game changer in the bedroom.
So ladies! Try making love for the sake of love making.
Mating without the pressure of having orgasm can lead to a fulfilling feeling of closeness that emphasizes affection.
Equal sex pleasure is oftentimes what makes sex gratifying.
SissyAde Is An Integrative Sex Therapist/Sex Columnist/Relationship Coach/Family Speaker Who Works Globally And Love To Sew And Watch Soap Opera @ Her Leisure.
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