SHOWER MATING.

SHOWER MATING

A slippery wet floor is the first thing that comes to mind when you consider  shower sex because in reality, the small space hardly gives enough room to work. A slippery floor can be quite challenging, therefore finding shower sex style positions, can help bring your sexy wet dreams a reality.

Shower sex is one type of lovemaking that often sounds better in theory as the cons of shower sex often outweigh the pros. But the sight of your spouse dripping-wet naked body is not something to be ignored.

Shower sex is a fun way to steam things up literally and it can be a nice break from the bedroom activity.

 Here are tips to help you work it like a pro with no broken bones or bruised egos.

Firstly, get a non slip bath mat- It is crucial to ensure nobody slips or falls. Moreover, it make getting into positions a lot easier.

Also, be sure to have a designated foot stand which can be a wide, sturdy ledge in the tap or a shower stool/bench.  Avoid stuff that can easily break from the wall when used for support such as, towel bars, faucets etc.

Secondly, start with turning up the heat- it’s hard to be hot when it’s freezing cold, turning up the heat beforehand will be helpful.

Thirdly, buy shower friendly lube- Water can dry up so having the lube on hand can be helpful; silicone waterproof lube based or natural lubricants are perfect, they make penetration easier and reduces friction. Avoid using oils and soaps on the genitals. Get creative, up the game by using waterproof sex toys during the act.

Fourthly, rinse and rinse thoroughly- Lathering your spouse’s body may be the epitome of romance in Netflix, this is a no-no in real life. Soap, shampoo and especially conditioner, can make the shower floor extra slick and slippery. If you must  lather up together, then rinse very well to get rid of any slimy residue.

Fifthly, don’t be too stuck on penetration as that’s not the only grail of sex in the shower. It should not be your focus or end game.

Here are some of the benefits of engaging in shower intercourse.

* It’s entirely private- A perfect top-notch location for uninterrupted quickie or mutual masturbation as the water can drown out any form of sexy noises.

* Simple to clean up after the Act- Mating normally is a messy activity. Get dirty in the bathroom and wash up instead of ruffling/messing the bedsheet and getting to change the linens for fresh and clean ones.

Lastly, menstruation sex is really safe- You can have more sex during your period without stressing about changing your bedsheet or sliding towel under your spouse’s butt, it’s easier to go to the shower than bother about washing stained sheets.

In case you desire shower mating and you are not sure how to tell your spouse, just know that there’s a strong possibility that she or he is already feeling intrigued like you do!

SissyAde is an Integrative Sex Therapist/Coach.