SLOW SEX UNDERRATED.

SLOW SEX UNDERRATED.    

The act of copulating is never always about fast, hard, rough kinky or intense.

Other times, the act of loving making can actually be slow, soft, gentle and most especially it can be deeply relaxing. Most spouses do love it.

There’s actually no right or wrong way to copulate as the pace of lovemaking is not related to sexual satisfaction; yet slow sex is highly underrated.

Quite a number of couples desire a mix of fast and intense along with slow and relaxed act but this oftentimes vary with lovers moods, level of arousal or preferences.

Lovemaking with your spouse in any way, shape or form can be very emotionally connecting depending on the reason for the act.

Nothing is better than you and your spouse taking time to explore each other’s body having pure bliss; a moment where emotional connection bonds with the body, soul and mind merges to be one.

Indulging in sweet caress of the fingers, soft kiss, vulnerable intimacy and basking in the sweet warm feelings that slowly builds between the two of you before getting carried away.

The point here is that, your personal taste belongs to you. And the only “study” that can tell you what works for you sexually is best conducted between you and your bedsheets.

There’s well-defined benefits of slow sex: it makes way for deep physical connection.

It’s underrated because some see it as boring with not, enough flavours and substance.

Here are some key tips about slow intercourse that prove it’s actually brimming with substance and flavours.

 *Hidden powers of kissing- This can be highly personal even though it is also very underrated because it is considered the most surface-level of intimate acts.

Kissing is interrelated with sexual satisfaction especially in ladies which isn’t shocking. This is because emotional intimacy is women’s biggest predictor of sexual satisfaction and it can greatly increase the possibility of orgasms for them.

•Eye contact intensity- The Intensity of eye contact between lovers can recharge sexual arousal. For instance, looking into your spouse’s eyes, there is a somewhat unnerving form of intimacy. This requires being vulnerable which can make slow sex really hot. It strengthens emotional connection, intimacy and once again, the frequency of orgasm in ladies.

*Magic of missionary sex style- Missionary position is the number one sex position likely to make women achieve orgasm. Whether true or false, it definitely sets the stage for a closer, more powerful form of face-to-face connection.

*Foreplay- Flirting and other kinds of sexual build up are actually huge part of the equation. Most of what makes sex good, is actually the lead-up setting.

*Being vulnerable- The real zone where all the above actions come into being; showing up authentically by being in the moment during mating. Vulnerability is a determining factor that tips the scales that lead to powerful sex.

Slow sex can make men last longer and most importantly, it can help lovebirds to feel more grounded in the moment and in their body as eroticism thrives more when spouses are mindful. It keeps the connection much more heated and pleasurable.

Slow sex can be awesome, last longer and is likened to a bottle of fine wine that tastes sweeter and better with time.

The slower you take things, the easier it makes you get close to the edge without loosing it, and the more intense your orgasm will be even though, you’re not doing anything intense to make it happen.

Great sex takes time and  slow sex is the real deal that rocks couple’s world!

SissyAde Integrative Sex Therapist/Coach- Works globally.