Q&A

Q&A

Dear Adesuwa,

How can I treat vaginal discharge with an offensive odour and irritating armpit sweat?

Favour, Lagos.

Answer: If you’re experiencing unusual vaginal discharge or armpit sweat, consult a healthcare professional for proper evaluation and guidance.

They can help determine the underlying cause and recommend effective treatments. In the meantime, practice good hygiene, wear breathable clothing, and use gentle products to alleviate discomfort.

Dear Adesuwa,

I’m in courtship but I want to know what couples really talk about in marriage

Gabriel, Abuja.

Answer: Effective communication is crucial in marriage. Couples discuss various topics, including daily life, future plans, finances, household responsibilities, emotional support, shared interests, and conflict resolution. By sharing experiences, goals, and challenges, couples build intimacy, trust, and understanding. Open communication helps resolve conflicts and strengthens their bond.

Dear Adesuwa,

Apart from love in Marriage what other things can sustain a marriage?

Amaka, Port Harcourt.

Answer: While love is crucial, other factors sustain a marriage. Mutual respect, trust, and communication build a strong bond. Shared values and common goals create unity and cooperation. Emotional support, compromise, and teamwork help navigate life’s challenges. By prioritizing these elements, couples can build a strong foundation for a successful and fulfilling marriage.

Dear Adesuwa,

Is it ideal for a wife to ask her husband for lovemaking?

Efe, Delta.

Answer: In a marriage, intimacy is a vital aspect of the relationship. While traditional roles may suggest the husband should initiate lovemaking, it’s perfectly acceptable for a wife to take the lead.

Open communication and mutual initiation can strengthen the bond between partners.

Dear Adesuwa,

My husband keeps malice a lot. How can I cope with a man that doesn’t forgive even if one apologized?

Omonigho, Benin.

Answer: When a spouse struggles with unforgiveness, consider having an open conversation about how his behavior affects you. Encourage him to express his feelings and work together to find a resolution. If needed, seek coaching to address underlying issues. Focus on maintaining a healthy communication dynamic and prioritize self-care.

Dear Adesuwa,

I don’t like intimacy with my husband because I always feel pain. What can I do to accommodate him?

Ngozi, Aba.

Answer: If intimacy causes pain, address the issue by consulting a a sex therapist.

 Explore alternative ways to connect with your husband, such as emotional intimacy or shared activities. Communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and needs. By working together and seeking professional help, you can find solutions to enhance your intimate connection and strengthen your relationship.

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