
YOUR FIVE EROTIC LOVE LANGUAGES.
Knowing your sex language is really very vital for happy marriage. It helps to reveal your language for better lovemaking. It is based on the erotic love languages you formed when younger, and can actually, alter and change in response to one’s sexual experiences throughout lifetime.
Learning your erotic love languages can help to improve your sexual satisfaction. The core ways we express and love to receive sexual pleasures: a map that shows how couples can experience arousal at what turns them on and off.
This helps boost self-awareness in the bedroom, improve communication between you and your spouse, while giving you a better knowledge of what excites you.
There are five different types of erotic love languages:
Sensual love language- He/she focuses on using all five senses before, during, and after playtime.
They like to bring items into the bedroom before the phase of sex since exploring ways to get better sex can involve experimenting with different sensory elements.
Keep it simple, have fun, and indulge in a single sense at a time to enhance your overall sexual experiences.
Energetic lover- Is interested in having adventurous encounters like wanting to take their lovebirds behind the park bush for the thrill of sexual attraction. Gets excited during a dinner date and eagerly anticipating what will happen between the sheets afterwards.
This type of mate occasionally pulls in the reins. Being overly excited can be quite overwhelming, and may come in the way from your ultimate goal of a satisfying and fulfilling sexual connection with your loved one.
Sexual/Vanilla- They prefer to stick to the basics and if you’re curious about achieving better sex beyond the basics, knowing your sexual type can be a valuable step. These individuals enjoy looking at their lovers naked body/using toys.
The energetic sex language may see them as boring but, in all reality, the sexual/vanilla type is more into visuals, the basics of bedroom pleasure and sexual attraction.
And also, if you find yourself gearing towards the “normal” standards of lovemaking and pleasure, you may be a sexual type.
Taboo- Is just another type of sex language intrigued by the world of kinks; and exploring the kinky erotic love language can provide new perspectives and experiences.
This type likes to step out of their comfort zone and engage in entirely risqué activities. He/she may like to take things to the maximum with sex toys, including stuff like blindfolds, whips, bondage, and other Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism, BDSM, type items.
They also enjoy indulging in the mind game of BDSM where one lover is the sub and the mate is the dom/master. Just in case you’re game in exploring such dynamics, understanding the importance of consensual play is very essential.
You being able to incorporate all these elements safely and consensually can give you a pleasurable sex.
The Shapeshifter- This group of people are very adaptive and intuitive, and can embody the different aspects of the different erotic languages to their spousal’s sexual arousal, depending on their moods.
Understanding the shapeshifter sex language can provide insights into your versatile desires.
Note the one that resonates with you and the type that reflects your biggest turn-ons the most, is your primary erotic love language.
It’s possible for you to identify with more than one erotic love languages, but it’s good too to relate to certain aspects of all the other love languages.
Being able to understand how your sexuality works and utilise it, is a crucial step in discovering how to have a pleasurable sex.
SissyAde Is An Integrative Sex therapist/Relationship, Sex Columnist/Family Speaker Who Works Globally.
She Enjoys Sewing And Watching Of Soap Opera @ Her Leisure.
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