WIFE BE A MISTRESS TO YOUR HUSBAND.

Most times, married women long to indulge in those things that the mistress is doing, say the things that she is saying and also to feel some of the thrills the side -chick is feeling, in other words, be somebody’s lover. After all, both wife and mistress have much in common as women.

Luckily, you can be somebody’s lover, that of your husband, pleasure in a steamy sex life with your spouse, the anticipation, excitement and intimacy all wrapped up in the security of love and commitment. So who says you cannot have everything and even more than the mistress has.

Getting into the role of a mistress would require some effort, you might have embraced when you newly got married but allow it to slide due to the other roles such as that of mum, teacher, driver, employee, friend to have push it aside.

Whatever might have happened in the past can be relished. Your man chose you above other numerous women to spend his life with him, to be the mother of his children and above all to be his partner through thick and thin.

To be wild with your husband is right, stop whining and complaining about his ‘’so called’’ mistresses and girlfriends he seems to have fun with, stand up and take charge of your marriage. Decide to be you r husband’s mistress. Here are few ideas on how to make a difference in the bedroom. Though your man might seem astonished at first or even suspecting but he is your husband so there is no wrong in becoming his mistress.

Imagine a scenery, where another lady is giving your man unbashed attention, truly been happy to see him, listening to his every word as he speaks, sneaking around and appreciating the limited time they have together. This should be you and not some other woman, note it is not all about sex.

Here are the obvious ways you can be a mistress/side chick for your man, be pretty for your guy not because he will walk out on you, but to show that you care about what he thinks of you, that you want to be attractive to him.

Always hug him, be more intentional, more deliberate about his daily home comings. Flaunt that you are happy to see him, even when he comes home late, even if you are irritated because you expected him home earlier, still show that you are cool to have him home, still show that you are cool to have him home and be sure to make this is clear.

Engage in stuff outside the box, schedule a date, it does not have to be night date, it can be lunch or breakfast. Then you can make plan for a night fun, do not allow anything to disrupt this arrangement, if  possible get tickets for movie or a mystery dinner.

Steal some time to spend with each other. Let the children watch one of those their long movies while you ooze off to the bedroom with a bottle of wine. Sneaking around could be a real fun and should not be reserved only for sinful stuff.

Don’t crowd him, give him his space once in a while, if you need to talk about the home front, let it be clear that you are not nagging him.  Show him respect and attention, don’t allow the kids to meddle in your conversation with their father. As the children are growing, let them begin to assume some of the tiresome tasks that their daddy struggles with, like taking the trash out.

Be calculating, do something thoughtful by helping, him with that stuff that he loves to do that he has not been able to do recently. This shows you care and appreciate him as an individual outside of his function as husband and father.

Explore something new, one of the reasons we got thrilled with sex at the beginning is that everything is new and exciting. But as time goes, you fall into a routine and know what to expect hence you need to create excitement again by introducing something new every now and then such as new sex position, location, different time of the day, something that is different for the two of you even if it means going out of your comfort zone and been a little bit more daring as mistresses are known to be adventurous.

Look fresh by taking good care of yourself; the outside chicks always look their very best. Pamper yourself by getting a regular pedicure and manicure, nice hair style, smell nice. Be conscious of yourself as your weight hurts more than your looks thus it could be a source of low-self esteem and feeling of insecurity. So hit the gym now and be sure to be attractive to your guy. You will not only keep him, you will also feel good about yourself especially as men love to show off their wives who are bold, beautiful and who seemed to defy aging.

Give him your undivided attention as most women seem to be absent when needed the most by their husband. Know that your man needs a wife who will listen to his victories as well as worries. Being physically present is one, but giving your undivided attention and showing interest in what he does is another, this is what mistresses do best.

Finally, satisfy your husband’s number one need, SEX! Most marital problem stem from activities in the bedroom, this is where mistresses are seen not only as skillful but also unforgettable. As they are not passive in the bedroom but instead, they are very adventurous, participative when the man hint to try the unconventional. So be emotional about him, this encapsulates everything above. Show him that he is not another guy in the home but rather someone you love passionately by taking an active part in your sexual life. Wives tend to take the back seat and allow their men do all the work when it comes to love making, since lovers are not passive, this means you have to try and switch things up once in a while by initiating sex some times. Irrespective of who initiates, be involved, kiss, touch and responds passionately when he touches you, make your desires know to him and do that which you used to do when sex was steamiest between the two of you.

Wives do your homework as a satisfied man is a happy man, begin to study his body and fulfill his needs. You have license to do this, do something that will never make him want to look outside at another woman by making it exciting for him to always want to come home in the earliest time possible.

Just a little change of paradigm the wife with tactics of the mistress. Your man will never believe that there is any lady better than his wife ever lived. So be your husband’s mistress and give one less other side chick a fighting chance to attack your relationship.