INTIMACY BEYOND MASTECTOMY.

INTIMACY BEYOND MASTECTOMY.

Mastectomy is the surgical removal of one or both boobs, which can profoundly impact a woman’s physical and emotional well-being.

Although it saves lives, it’s a life changing experience that also raises concerns about body image, self-esteem, and intimacy. 

Mastectomy is different for every woman.

 The commonly shared issues, are both physical and emotional. Luckily enough, intimacy extends far beyond physical appearance.

However, intimacy extends far beyond physical appearance, as there are aids and strategies that can make adjusting to the new normal easier.

@ Physical Intimacy: might seem daunting for a number of ladies who may worry about their altered body, scars, or prosthetics. Spouses may struggle to understand their loved one’s new needs. 

These types of concerns are very rampant and for most women they may improve over time.

Open communication is vital for concerns and desires, exploring sensitive areas and boundaries.

@ Emotional Intimacy:

Emotional intimacy is deeply affected as some women may not want to engage in lovemaking due to lack of interest/depressed or may be painful because of the side effects of medications.

Some women may experience body dysmorphia, anxiety/depression.

Their partners can help by listening actively, validates emotions and fostering a supportive environment.

Reclaiming intimacy requires patience, understanding, and creativity; starting with sensual touch beyond breasts like massage, explore non-physical intimacy and rebuild confidence through self-care.

Prosthetics/reconstruction can aid physical comfort, but shouldn’t define intimacy, instead focus on shared experiences by prioritizing emotional connection and be sure to celebrate resilience.

Spouse’ support plays a crucial role, need to get educated on mastectomy’s emotional impact: encouraging open communication, and fostering empathy and understanding.

Things may not exactly be as they were before diagnosis, but the truth is that, there are actually ways to enhance sexuality and intimacy.

Don’t resign yourself to fate, get creative, explore and try stuff differently. Adopt a mindset that’s flexible.

Intimacy beyond mastectomy requires a holistic approach: addressing physical, emotional, and psychological aspects, couples can nurture a deeper connection.

The essence of this write up is to promote awareness and support for women navigating intimacy mastectomy by reaching out sex therapist/coach for the needed professional help; options are always available.

Things do get better over time, stay positive and look to the future with hope!

SissyAde an Integrative sex therapist, relationship coach, family speaker and a sex columnist with Sunday Vanguard Newspaper works globally.

Feel free to reach out for her expertise.